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Just to tell you a little about myself, my name is Vickie and I was born and raised in Kentucky. The majority of my ancestors have been in Kentucky since the 1790’s. I have always loved history, a good mystery and puzzles and that is what Family History Research is all about. As a child we would take day trips on Saturdays and head down some dirt road looking for old cemeteries. A lot of the time we weren't looking for anyone in particular, we just like to read the epitaphs. We would have a picnic lunch packed and have lunch at whatever cemetery we were at. If the weather was bad my Dad and I would go to a courthouse and dig through old records in musty old basements looking for our ancestors. So as you can see I have had an interest in Family History for quite some time.

Tuesday, October 6, 2015

Anna Marie Strate

Here is my next ancestor story, which is taken from my husband’s side of the family again.  Little Annie as she was always known in family stories, was in reality, Anna Marie Strate the youngest child of her parents and the daughter of Rasmus Strate, 1857-1914, and his wife, Ane Mettie Marie Sofie Frederikke Thomsen, 1864-1886.  Annie was born January 28, 1886 in Spring City, Sanpete County, Utah.  Annie would have been my husband’s first cousin, one generation removed from their common ancestors.  Her mother was my husband’s grandaunt, and was one of his grandfather, Peder Engmar Thomsen, anglicized to Peter Elmer Thompson, older sisters.

Annie’s mother died from complications following Annie’s birth, almost a month later on February 25, 1886 and so she of course never knew her mother.  Her grandparents, Hans and Karen Thomsen had left Spring City in September of 1881 and gone to the Arizona Territory and were living in St. Johns until February of 1885 when they moved to Old Mexico.  After they heard about their daughter’s death they came back up to Utah and took Annie back to Mexico with them to raise.   They were living at the Pratt Ranch in Cave Valley in Chihuahua, Mexico when Annie came to live with them. 

Annie had two older siblings, a brother and a sister, both born in Spring City as well named, Rasmus Adolph Strate, 1882-1970 in Porterville, Tulare County, California who married Katherine Groves Thompson (no relationship) and Velettie Caroline Strate, 1884-1964 in Sacramento, California who married Thomas Jackson Thomas and then Phillip Andrew Biesinger.  Their father kept these two children with him, but he could not take care of the baby too and that is why he let her go with her grandparents.  I have a picture of Annie’s father Rasmus, her brother Rasmus and her sister Velettie, but not one of her mother and they are the following.  I wish I had a better one of Caroline, and I do have a picture of Annie’s, mother’s, tombstone though and it follows as well.





Annie was barely a year old when her grandparents took her to Mexico and for the next five years she followed her two young uncles, Hyrum and Peter all over the place, as they were the only two still living at home.  She was their little shadow, but stayed closed to her grandmother for the most part.  In the spring of 1892, Annie and her grandmother Karen had their picture taken in Colonia Juarez and this is the only picture I have of Annie as a child, but none yet of her as an adult.  Annie was six years old and her grandmother was fifty-eight in this picture.  My youngest daughter Amy, looked a lot like Annie when was she was this age, and so we had a copy of this picture made and hung in Amy’s bedroom.  Her favorite bedtime story was when I told her the story about the little girl who survived the Indian attack.


That spring was probably the last time for quite a few years that Annie still felt like a little girl, for that fall on what started out to be a beautiful Sunday morning on September 19, 1892 the quiet was shattered as renegade Apache Indians, raiding off the reservation, came running down into the farm yard of the Pratt Ranch, shooting and screaming war cries, as first Hyrum, then Peter fell from gunshots.  Hyrum they believe died almost instantly, Peter, my husband’s grandfather, was shot at least twice in the chest, but somehow managed to crawl away, after the Indians went into the house, over to the chicken coop and crawl underneath it.  Karen hearing the sounds I am sure went running out to see what was happening.  I am also sure she probably saw her sons lying dead, as I am pretty sure she was probably thinking that, and then to feel the tug of her little granddaughter, which brought her back to the reality of what was happening around here.  The Indians seeing her standing there shot her and she fell and then they grabbed Annie, but then put her down as they raided through the house and took food, and whatever else they thought they needed.  While the Indians were tearing the house apart Karen who was not dead yet, took Annie and hid her under her long skirt.  When the Indians came back out they didn’t see Annie, but they realized that Karen was still a live, so a squaw took a large rock and bashed her head in, this time she was dead.  I wrote about Karen’s story for Week #7.

Thinking the little girl may have gone for help and then realizing that one of the boys was no longer lying where he had fallen, the Indians mounted up and took off, leaving death and destruction in their wake.  After they left, Annie looked out from under her grandmother’s shirt and saw that she was dead, I can only imagine the horror that little girl endured seeing her beloved grandmother with her head all bloody.  My husband’s grandfather, Peter, motioned for Annie to come to him and I am sure she must have run as fast as lightening towards him.  They laid under the chicken coop until they were sure the Indians were really gone and then 14 year old Peter, told 6 year old Annie that they needed to go for help.  Their old dog had somehow stayed out of the ruckus and showed up right when they needed him.  Somehow Peter stood and while holding on to Annie and with the dog there to warn them of any danger, they started walking towards the Mortenson ranch which was a few miles away but the closest to their ranch.

Peter soon stopped weak from the loss of blood and set and leaned against a tree.  He told Annie that she needed to continue to walk down that road and she would eventually see the Mortenson ranch.  Annie was so frightened that she at first refused, but Peter finally convinced her to take their dog and she would be safe, while he stayed there at the tree.  Peter said in later years that he thought for sure he would be dead before Annie got out of his site and he didn’t want her to be setting by him when that happened, she had already seen more than any little girl should have ever had to see.

Meanwhile at the Mortenson ranch something just didn’t feel right, James Mortenson went and saddled his horse and headed towards the Thomsen ranch and the closer he got the more that feeling increased.  It was coming on to dusk when out of the evening mist he saw a tiny figure and a large dog, he recognized Little Annie almost immediately and he knew that things were bad, she was covered in blood and while he checked her over to see if it was hers, he finally got her to talk.  She said everyone was dead and that Peter had told her to walk towards his ranch.  James put her on his horse and took her back to his ranch and then raised the alarm about Indians in the area.  He hitched up his wagon so that he could collect the bodies at the Thomsen ranch, Annie had told him that Peter wasn’t at the ranch, but against a tree on the road towards his ranch.  As James was going down the road he kept his eyes open for Indians and for the tree, Annie said Peter was by.   When he saw the boy against the tree he knew he was dead, but as he picked him up to lay him in the wagon, Peter’s eyes opened and he ask if Annie had made it to the ranch and then he passed out, alive, but just barely, and so James went back to his ranch with the boy so they could start trying to save his life.

In the mean time someone was able to find Annie’s grandfather and he came to the Mortenson ranch where his wife, sons Hyrum, Peter and his granddaughter Annie were.  They buried the two bodies the next day and as soon as Peter was able to travel they put him in a wagon and took him and Annie to Colonia Juarez where they stayed with Aunt Sena.  Word was sent to Annie’s father, Rasmus Strate in Utah, I am not sure how long it took, but he did come and get Annie and took her back to Utah with him.

Annie soon met her two older siblings, and her father for basically the first time, since she had been less than a year old when her grandparents took her to Mexico.  Annie’s father remarried in 1894 and now she had a stepmother and soon Annie had half-siblings being born, all in Spring City, starting with, Maybert ‘R’ Strate, 1895-1968; Andrew Everette Strate, 1897-1961; Rulon Alfonzo Strate, 1899-1983; Fredolph McKinley ‘Mack’ Strate, 1901-1988; Christie Marie Strate Beck, 1904-1992; Don Carlos Strate, 1909-1983 and Dora Geneva Strate Madsen, 1912-1984.  All of these half-siblings were buried at the Spring City Cemetery, just like Annie’s father, mother and step-mother were.

Annie was living with her father on the 1900 census in Spring City, but sometime between 1902 and 1904 she met and married Gabriel B. ‘Gabe’ May who was born in Owen County, Kentucky on May 2, 1876.   Why he was in Utah, I have not been able to figure out yet, but on their first child’s birth record it does say he was a soldier, so maybe he was stationed at Camp Douglas and the 1945 state census in Florida says he was a Spanish War Veteran.   All the old family records say that Annie and Gabe were married in Spring City on November 17, 1904 but so far I have not been able to find an official record of that marriage.  They became the parents of four known children, two boys and two girls.  Their first child, Gabriel Allen ‘Harry B.’ May was born in Salt Lake City on January 28, 1906.  Before August of 1908 they had left Utah and gone back east to Indianapolis, Marion County, Indiana where some of Gabe’s family lived.  Their next child, a daughter, Dolly Marie May was born in Indianapolis on August 30, 1908 as were their next two children, Marie Geneva May on September 22, 1915 and Walter Gene May on November 19, 1919.

Now I don’t know what is going on, but in Jefferson County, Indiana on November 11, 1911 Annie and Gabe are getting married, again???, and both are saying it is their first marriage, and it has the wrong birth date for Annie.  Jefferson County is almost 100 miles southeast of Indianapolis, so why they went that far to get married, when the marriage record says they both live in Marion County, is beyond me at this time.   The only thing I can think is that maybe they weren’t really married in Utah in 1904 and they have finally decided they might want to make themselves legit, so to speak and so they go 100 miles away so no one knows what they are doing.  The following is a copy of their marriage license from 1911.


In 1914, Annie’s father Rasmus Strate had died in Spring City, and I doubt Annie was able to go back for his funeral.  Annie and Gabe and their children continued to live in Indianapolis, but things were to get heart breaking again for Annie when on March 8, 1930 her oldest child, Gabriel Allen May, Harry as he was known, was killed in a car accident where he suffered a fractured skull and broken neck, when the car he was a passenger in was hit by a train.  His fiancĂ©e Ina Smith, was setting in his lap and suffered internal injuries, but apparently survived as I have not found any newspapers stating that she had died.

Annie’s other three children married, Dolly Marie May married Samuel Raymond Pullen, 1901-1965, on July 15, 1928 in Indianapolis and after his death in 1965 she married a Mr. Kern, and I have yet to find his first name or their marriage date.  Mary Geneva May married Robert Delmas Thrasher, 1911-1966, on March 30, 1937 in Shelby County, Indiana and Walter Gene May married Velma Pauline Palmer, 1920-1990, on June 19, 1939 in Indianapolis.  I don’t know if it was just the memories of her son’s death or if they just decided to leave Indianapolis for some other reason, but sometime before December 1938, Annie and Gabe moved to Miami, Florida and their three living children and their spouses also moved there as well around the same time.

Annie and Gabe from everything I have found to date only had two grandchildren, a grandson by their daughter Dolly, named Robert Thrasher and a granddaughter by their son Walter, named Judith Ann May.  I have been trying to track these two down to see what pictures or stories they may know about their grandmother, but so far I have not had any luck in locating them.  They were just a year or so apart in age being born in the early 1940’s.  I did find a picture of Annie’s granddaughter, Judith Ann May from the Manatee Junior College in Bradenton, Florida year book in 1962 and it follows.


I don’t have any pictures of Annie when she was an adult, nor do I have any of her children, but I do have a couple of her husband that were sent to me by one of his grandnieces from the May side of this family, and they are the following, taken on the beach in Miami in December of 1938.



Annie’s children passed away, Gabriel Allen May on March 8, 1930 as I stated earlier; Dolly Marie May Pullen Kern on June 9, 1989; Mary Geneva May Thrasher on March 28, 1993 and Walter Gene May on June 27, 1990; all in Florida except for the oldest child.  Annie’s husband Gabe was 10 years older than Annie, but died 10 years after her in December of 1967 in Miami, Florida.

No one had followed Annie, genealogy wise, at least that I am aware of, after she left her grandparents and went back to her father.  My mother-in-law, just a couple of years before she passed away in 2007, ask me if I could find out whatever happen to Annie, so that is when I started looking for her.  I wish I had started looking sooner and then maybe I could have talk to one of her children.

Little Annie, Anna Marie Strate May, passed away in Miami, Florida on December 26, 1957 and was laid to rest at Lincoln Memorial Park in Allapattah in Miami-Dade County, Florida.  Her husband and two of her children and their spouses, Dolly and Walter, are also buried there as well.  I have yet to find the cemetery that Mary and her husband were buried in.

What a life Little Annie led, from her mother dying when she was barely a month old, to her grandmother and uncle being murder right in front of her when she was six years old.  Then to be taken back by a father she didn’t even know, to siblings she never remembered seeing and then a new step-mother, it makes you wonder if she may have suffered any kind of abandonment or depression with the things that she endured at such a young age.  Then to top it off to have her oldest child be killed in such a tragic accident when he was only 24 years old.  She must have had real strength and fortitude of spirit to help her get through all she had to endure, through her almost 72 years of life.

Saturday, October 3, 2015

Mary Ann Golden/Golding

One of my first cousins just ask me a week or so ago about this ancestor and what I knew about her and so I thought well here is the next week’s ancestor story #40 for the year.  The ancestor I will be talking about this time is from my Daddy’s side, through his mother Jessie Doss.  Mary Ann Golden/Golding was my fourth great-grandmother and she was born about 1774, probably in Orange County, Virginia.  Mary Ann was the daughter of Richard Golden/Golding and Susanna Wilmoth.  Family stories say that Mary Ann was Cherokee and the daughter of Chief Golden of the Cherokee Tribe.  However, from all the research I have done I do not believe that was the case.  Also, my DNA and my Daddy’s did not show any Native America, but the amount Mary Ann may have had in her may have been small enough that it does not show up in our DNA mixture, if she did indeed have Indian blood in her that is.  I believe if there were any Native American it may be on her mother, Susanna Wilmoth’s side, because so far I have not been able to find out anything about Susanna’s ancestry.   Another old family story says that Mary Ann’s father, Richard Golden/Golding was a large land owner and was stabbed to death by one of his German renters in 1788.  The man was brought to court, tried, found guilty and was hung by the neck that same afternoon.  I have not looked for any actual court records, but that is something I need to do, to see how close to the truth this story may be.  On week #27, I wrote about Mary Ann’s husband, Joseph Clark.

You can see Orange County, Virginia circled on the following map and you can find this map and other United States county maps at this link: http://www.censusfinder.com/county-maps.htm


I do know that before 1776, Mary Ann and her family are leaving Virginia and moving down to South Carolina around the area that would become the Abbeville District.  Her father Richard Golden/Golding had served in the Revolutionary War in the 9th and 13th Virginia Regiment’s and may have gotten land warrants for his service, but so far I do not have any records to prove this.  I have found the following records in Land Grants of Abbeville County, South Carolina Book A, page 94 where we read: “Richard Golding as a citizen, granted 640 acres of land situated on 12 Mile River bounding on all sides on vacant land surveyed by John Martin on the 24th day of June last as appears by his certificate with the form and marks as platted and recorded this 17th day of August 1784, signed Robert Anderson”. 

From what I have found so far, I believe the Golden/Golding family was from England, but my Golden/Golding line has been here in America starting out in Virginia, since at least the 1660’s, possibly even a little earlier than that and by 1775 or so in South Carolina, before scattering all around the United States.  The Foster/Forster family that my 6th great-grandfather, William Golding married into goes back to Royalty lines in England.

Mary Ann was the second of the seven known children of Richard Golden/Golding and Susanna Wilmoth and these children were the following: William Golden 1772-1848, who married Sarah Newbourne; Richard Golden 1776-????, who married Ann Walton; Reuben Golden 1778-????; Elizabeth Golden 1780-1837, who married James Nathaniel Henderson Cansler; and Foster Golden 1782-????.   Another family story I have heard says that Mary Ann’s sister, Elizabeth Golden Cansler, was supposed to have smoked a corncob pipe and slept on the floor and somehow that translated to some, that she was an Indian and that is why she never slept on a bed.  Unfortunately, smoking corncob pipes and sleeping on the floor does not always mean someone was of Indian birth, quite a few people did that and they never said they were of Indian blood.

I have Richard Golding’s letters of administration for his estate after his death, granted to his wife Susanna Golding on October 7, 1788 in Abbeville County, South Carolina.  So far I have not been able to locate his actual will, to see what other children may have possibly been mentioned, I also have the inventory papers for his estate, the following are these papers.




I have found Mary Ann’s grandfather, William Golding’s, will which was written on September 4, 1777 in the Old Ninety-Six District of South Carolina.  William Golding’s will mentions the following sons and daughters in this order: John Golding, Reuben Golding, Anthony Golding, Richard Golding (my direct line), Mary Golding Leonard (Wife of Capt. Laughlin Leonard who was killed by Tories at Hays Station during the Revolutionary War.), William Golding, MIlly Golding Griffin (wife of James Griffin), Sarah P. Golding Foster (wife of Anthony S. Foster, Sr., possibly her cousin), Elizabeth Golding Tinsley (wife of Isaac Tinsley) and Robert Golding.  I don't know for certain these children are listed in birth order, but it is a good possibility.  William’s sons John and Reuben are made the executors to his will.  This will was brought to probate on September 23, 1782.  His wife Elizabeth is not mentioned because she had died in about 1775.  Following is a copy of that will and I have underlined in red every time he mentions one of his children by name.


Mary Ann soon met and married Joseph Clark, a son of Bowling Clark and Winifred Buford.  I have yet to find the actual marriage date for Joseph and Mary Ann, but I am assuming they married in South Carolina, since that is where their first six children were born in what was then Pendleton District, but is now part of Anderson and Pickens Counties.   Marriages for South Carolina especially during this early time period are few and far between, some being lost from fire, flood, war or just plain old neglect.  The following map shows where these counties are located in the state of South Carolina.


Joseph and Mary Ann had at least eleven known children, six of which were born in South Carolina before they left and moved to Christian County, Kentucky in about 1803, where their other five children were born.  These eleven children were: James Cansler Clark 1791-1875 married Hannah Henderson and then Tyressa Johnson; Lemuel Marion Clark 1793-1847 married Anna Henderson; Rachel Clark 1795-after 1841, married her cousin David Clark; Alfred Clark 1798-1809; Susannah Clark 1800-1809; Eusiba Clark 1802-1822, married Dr. John M. Brown; Jonathan Clark 1804-after 1841, married Betsey Journegan; Joab Clark 1807-1882, married Elizabeth Brasher, then Mary A. Brasher and finally Nancy B. Brasher; Lucetta Clark 1809-1883, married Reed Renshaw (my direct line); Samuel Clark 1810-before 1839, married Marcella P. Pennington; and Harriet Clark 1811-1869, married Larkin Tarrence Brasher.  These Brasher spouses were all siblings and children of Thomas Brasher and Catharine Croft.  Also, Alfred and Susannah both died in 1809, less than a month apart, which has always made me wonder if perhaps there was some kind of an epidemic or something going on at that time.

I don’t have many pictures for this part of my family but the following pictures I posted in the story on Mary Ann’s husband, Joseph Clark, and so I am posting them again here in case someone didn’t see them there.   The following is a picture of Joab Clark that was in the History of Christian County, Kentucky.  I wish I had a clearer picture, but he was a handsome man.  The next picture is of James Cansler Clark which I found on www.findagrave.com added by David Sterling May a distant cousin.  James Cansler Clark in the year 1833 or 1834 was elected to the Kentucky State Legislature, serving one term and he also served as Justice of the Peace in Kentucky for many years.  The next picture I posted in a previous ancestor story on Reed Renshaw (week #18) and may be of Lucetta Clark and her husband Reed Renshaw.  I wish I had pictures of some of the other children of Joseph Clark, but at least I have the following ones.




From her birth in Virginia, to her growing up years in South Carolina, to the wilds of the growing state of Kentucky, Mary Ann endured and saw quite a bit during her short life.  She had lost at least four of her children before she passed away.  Her father had fought in the Revolutionary War, some of her uncles died during that war, other family members fought in the War of 1812, namely her oldest son James Cansler Clark, who received a pension for his service during that war.   What these women went through while their men were off at war is probably hard to understand unless you have gone through something like that yourself.  One of my daughters had to go through that while her husband served a tour of duty for a year in Afghanistan.  I know she was a nervous wreck and probably didn’t show us half of the emotions she was probably feeling while he was gone.  My daughter was strong and I am sure our ancestors were too, they did not have time to set and bemoan their lives or their fate, they just had to get up and go every day no matter what.  One of my first cousins son is Special Forces and is gone again into the fighting, for at least his fourth or fifth tour overseas.  She has no idea where he is except that he is not on vacation, but she is staying strong too.

I do not have a death date for Mary Ann, but I know it was after 1830 and before 1839 in Christian County, Kentucky.  She was not even 65 years old, but life on the frontier was hard back in those days, especially for the women.  You worked from dawn to dusk, making sure your family was fed and clothed, and you worried constantly about the threat from Indians, highwaymen and the like.  A lot of the times your husband would need to go off hunting for food or work and I am sure you probably wondered when he left, if you would ever see him again.  Such was the life of frontier women, but without them none of us would be here, not all our family were born in big cities or lived the life of luxury, just poor honest working people trying to raise their families and stay alive. 

She is another ancestor I can be proud of, my 4th great-grandmother, Mary Ann Golden Clark.